Black Women Can't Cook

So before I start I would like to say that I am completely tired of all of the articles about Black women this, Black women that, buuuut... I will add my two cents.  I do have a voice, right?  Ok so....

The "why Black (American) women don't cook" question came up recently with a group of friends. I don't even know how it came up. When it was posed to the group my thoughts were, "Really? You know every Black American woman in the world and all of them can't cook?"...  "I can't cook, but the young lady to my right can cook her ass off".  

The Black women can't/won't/don't cook statement is a blanket statement.  I hear this all the time and again, I am tired of these conversations, but I'm even more tired of the fact that we still make these blanket statements about one another.  On the one hand we preach that we as women and as Black people should all love and embrace one another, but on the other hand we choose to believe negative stereotypes of our different cultures; all in the name of finding ourselves superior. It shows insecurities and it shows ignorance, and I don't know why, but it still boggles my mind.   

So to everyone who believes with their heart of hearts that Black American women can't/won't/don't cook and are beaming with pride because you think that EVERY woman in your culture can, I say this:

1. Knowing one Black American woman doesn't mean you know all Black American women (Just thought I'd start with this). 
2. I know many Black American women who cook, cook well, and love to do so.  
3. Maybe the Black American women that you met that couldn't cook, just don't like to or were not interested. It happens.   
4. And lastly.........Want to come to dinner?

'4'

It's here. Finally, it's here.  I didn't listen to the album when it leaked so despite my fears about whether the album would be good, I was still excited about it. Maybe more excited because she is actually back on the scene rather than the fact that she has new music out, because let's face it..'Run the World (Girls)' would suck if it didn't have such an awesome video.  And '1+1'... horrid.

I've listened to the whole album and 4 is a very appropriate name because I only like about 4 songs.  She seemed to make an attempt to take it back to good ol' 90's R & B with some songs, but failed.  I was hoping that this would be an awesome album, but I'm left wanting more. Maybe if I listen to the album once more it'll grow on me.  *shrugs*

So for my "favs":

1. End of Time- This song is really, really good.
2. I Care- Eh
3. I Miss You-Eh
4. I Was Here- It's OK
5. Rather Die Young- I know I said I liked 4 songs, but this one is ok too.

Before I'm crucified by Beyonce stans I will say that I am by no means a music critic.  I am a Beyonce fan and a lover of music...all kinds of music, and as a consumer and music lover; I'm more than entitled to an opinion.

Sophia

Photographer: Tiyrah Symone

Introducing my beautiful friend Sophia.  I absolutely fell in love with this picture from her recent vacation to Hawaii.  It's just a really beautiful image. I love everything about it.  The face. The lip color. The bathing suit. The person in it.  Love you Sophia!

Remembering MJ (August 29, 1958-June 25, 2009)

Two years ago, we lost the greatest entertainer that ever lived and ever will live. What's the saying?...Genius is madness.  That describes him perfectly.  Genius. Eccentric. Pure.  Probably too pure for this world.   

Human Nature. Billie Jean. Rock With You. Black or White. Bad. I Can't Help It. Beat It. P.Y.T. Wanna Be Startin Something. Scream. In the Closet. Remember the Time. THRILLER. And the list goes on.

High waters. White socks with black loafers. Sparkly glove. Military Jacket. Red Leather Jacket. He made it all look good.

Michael, you continue to touch people.  Words cannot not describe the impact you had on this world.  We love you.

This might be my favorite video of Michael's.  Do you see that sparkly suit?!  Loves.  

Happy Birthday Solange!

Photo: Rimmel London

It's Solange's 25th birthday!!!!!!  Anyone who knows me, knows that I am a HUGE Solange fan..like HUGE. I love her. I love her style. I love her beauty. And of course at the top of the list, I love her music. Absolutely in love with 'Left Side Drive'...been on repeat for quite some time now. Hopefully a new album is coming soon.

Her style has definitely evolved and she's been looking nothing short of amazing in every photo I've seen.  Not overly sexy and not a slave to trends. Just chic, young, hip, fun, etc., etc., etc.

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Rainy Day Reads

It's rainy and gloomy here in New Jersey.  I've been wasting my life away on the internet reading the most random things. From apartment decorating to potential DIY projects to catching up on my favorite blogs.  Here are a few that I think you will enjoy:

• A Beautiful Mess
• QQueen of Hearts
• Design Indulgences
• the Good Hair Blog

Happy Saturday!

Girl About Town

Lipstick: Mac Girl About Town

The lipstick of choice. I plan on being a girl skipping about town tonight, so it's pretty appropriate for my planned evening. Now I hope this rain holds up...I HATE rain (when I have to be out in it). Have a great Friday guys! 

Happy Birthday Prince!

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Such the fashionisto, though he never let his outfits overpower his art and talent.  Words can't express how much I love this man. If you haven't seen him in concert...do so! Amazing!

And look at that necklace!

My favorite Prince song would have to be Darling Nikki, Adore, Kiss, Baby I'm A Star, If I Was Your Girlfriend, I Would Die For You, etc.... guess I couldn't name just one.  What's yours?

Ok, Louboutin's weren't born yesterday...

License

 Ahem.... I think it needs to be said that Christian Louboutin has been around before the Kardashians and any other celebrity were spotted wearing his gorgeous shoes.  I feel like some don't realize that.  And the bottom of the shoe is red yes, but quit calling them red bottoms!  I hate that. My heart hurts. Rant over.

To see a timeline of the great Christian Louboutin and his work go here----> Christian Louboutin.

Work Appropriate Shorts

Work Appropriate Shorts by Mec featuring silk shorts

So I start an externship next week and I will have to dress professionally. Well not really professionally, but I can't wear jeans. New York City summers are HOT and I refuse to wear pants and after a while, dresses and skirts may get boring.  Shorts can be dressed up just as much as a skirt or dress, and I think they are a nice way to switch things up a little.

I envision a work outfit with shorts to look a little like this...

Working Woman by Mec featuring nude shoes

The Pink and Grey Room

Something Like My Dream Room by Mec on Polyvore.com

Here are a few pieces that I would love to have for my bedroom. So girly yet grown up.

Memorial Day Weekend

I had a phenomenal Memorial Day weekend. The weather was perfect for a relaxing stroll in Central Park with that special someone.

Zara romper. Urban Outfitters belt and sunnies.

I think I look like three different people in these pictures. Guess that's a good thing. Hope you all had an amazing weekend and are having an amazing week!